Just read my friend's blog and I think I have found an answer for myself and for her also. Impulse. When you do things at an impulse without thinking, it is equivalent to not thinking of the consequences (just like the racing, most likely I acted on an impulse). When you think before you do, perhaps things might just be better. And maybe many people think hence politics and politically correct answers come into the picture. Some people think too much is because they really cares for the environment they live in. Contented we may be, but they is always someone to spoil the day or just make your life difficult but treat it as a form of training and you will grow up to be a much better person after that. This is quoted by my officer who consoled me when I was having a hard time in army until the point of tears. Until now, I still bear in mind his words which are so meaningful to me and helped me overcome a lot of troubles in my life.