Somehow the thought of people or friends only look for me when they are in trouble, cannot find people to go out with, need my help bla bla bla... Sometimes really feel bad about it... It does not pay to be kind to people... Some people just exploit your good will and you will end up draining yourself unneccesary. Why do you have to be so good to people ? Why bother with people who have troubles ? Why not just give the more common answer: Oh, I not sure about this, can you ask other people.. Oh, I am very busy at the moment, can you ask other ppl ? Or the simplest, don't answer the call or just ignore the msg totally... I want to be with people who appreciate me, for those who wanna treat me as junks or replacements.. sorry, next door please !