It is certainly very saddening to lose a close relative.. It feels sad to lose a relative, and it is worse if you lose one that is close to you. There is really so little friends can do to help at this point of time. One certainly feel lost, words that are meant to be said will seems so like those words used in shows and sounded funny when come out of the mouth. All I know is, no matter how much words is being said, the pain will always be felt, no amount of words can solve the pain. Time will heal wounds...