Wonders of Life...

Sometimes until a certain point of time, certain questions regarding friendship starts to surface out. Some may ask, is being easy going okay? Well my answer is as long as ultimately you know what you want, why not because you have just made this world a better place to be in. If in this world, everyone wants things in their own way, then who will accomodate to them? There must be people in this world to help others to share their troubles and worries, even if you cannot offer any direct help, but I am sure you have reduced their agony just by lending them a listening ear.

Normal friends are full of compromises just like doing business dealings, good friends are those who knows when you are being compromised and offered some solutions to spice up the deals, close friends are those that you do not need to speak but they know what you want with no expectations for any returns. best friends are all of the above with something beyond. Knowing a friend for a long time does not means he/she directly falls into any category. Obligations does not seems like a applicable word to use here.

Confused will certainly sets in when questions like this are being asked. More questions to be pondered on. How well do you trust your friends? Can they be trusted? How will you feel when you realised that you have been betrayed either for the better or the worse? Will you ever feel unworth when you helped a friend? Selfish you may think, but that's life. If you have answered all these questions, maybe you will get the answer you want for the definition of friends. (^_^)

Just had another thought. Have you have accidentally done/said something wrong to your close friend and then in the end prayed that they will forgive you... Will things be back to how it was? Sometimes I really regret the stupid things I have done, can scars ever be removed after the damage has been done ? Will I be given a chance again ? If I am not been given a chance, is it that the damage that has been done is too great or simply i am not that close to my friend afterall. Pondering such things always gives me headache so to blog it out will be better, at least it is not bottled up.