Well... and so I just read another friend's friend blog... keke... so i do have the habit of reading new blogs recently... keke.. actually quite tiring to read blog but then I am jus curious with what really happened... Well to summarise in short, it is a story about a guy and a gal, this guy like the gal for fours years... being rejected once and then again within a span of 4 yrs.. so I often asked my friends... is there such a thing as love resulted from long term friendship.. Well some friends tell me yes and some say no... hmm... Then another question... can love be cultivate out of some thing that is never existence at all ? say friends for 4 yrs and then suddenly develop into love ?... Well... tough question to answer.. Only can say from what one of my friend mention to me before, he once say, being love is fortunate, to love is painful.... I have been at both ends and i can only say that both side are equally painful... It is not easy to reject someone because you know how bad it is to be rejected.. and maybe it is for the fear of being rejected that i have been stationary for so long... just dun feel like doing anything... but money dun fall from the sky... well that's not moved too far from the main topic... haha... so I have also seen ppl who accepted the other party because he/she finds that the other party have really put in everything he/she got to woo him/her... so does happiness really happen in that case ? or can happiness be obtained ? well hard to say, but then i have seen ppl who are happy that way so i cannot comment too much... having seen so much in life... i realise that u are a great thinker and analyst when it happens to others, but when self is involved... no solutions can ever come out successfully... and maybe that's why many ppl make mistakes and then later regret... that's all for now.. tata