just read a person's blog whom I have never even step into before, wow i was astonished at the depth of the entries (dun noe is self written or just cut and paste from somewhere. :p)

Relationship's one of the greatest fault: COMPARISION
Pros: It provoke people to work for the better, to strike hard to reach a 'target'
Cons: Humans are 'made' differently, so somehow most of the time, they give up and only ended up grumbling.

In chinese saying: Zi1 Zhu2 Chang2 Le4 (to be happy with what you have)

Why does some people like to be special, like to be unique ? Choose something that nobody has, can't stand someone having the same thing as you, stand out from the crowd by dying bright colours, talk loudly or act rowdy to attract attention. But why ? I do not know how to talk in terms of human so i shall just use car as comparision.

What for put faciful bodykits, loud exhaust muffler, lights all over the place, striking rims.... To look nice ?? To attract people's envy ??? To let people wanting to have another look at your car ???? Park somewhere hoping somewhere will come over to talk to you and say your car very nicely done up ????? Or because you want to locate your car easier among the seas of simliar make and model in a carpark !!!!!

What is so bad about being ordinary ? What is so bad about changing my rims to a larger size but same design as my old ones. Why must we let people know we have change something and then can 'show off' to them... i want to remain stealth... i dun need people to come over and say my car is nicely done up or badly done.. The car is mine and I dun give a d**n about what others say about it. I am me. I live in my own world and I don't live for others hence I dun feel the need to make myself what others wants me to be. But why are there so many people out there trying to imitate this and that, trying to out do him or her, asking questions like "How I wish I could be like him/her"