To love in the dark is call admiration: This is a very sad and uncomfortable feeling that one will have. Some will be just happy to sit and watch the person they love in action, make sure they are happy. Some will want to be with them although things will not work out...

To love someone because of infatuation: What I think is that if a person upon seeing so many couples so happily together, will soon have a sense of wanting to be loved... A person who happens to drop by to show them care and concern that nobody has even showed to them... they will be sort of attracted to them. looks real but in actual fact is just a dream.

To love someone who is much younger or older than you: Most are worried about how your friends and family will think of you. But then again, this is a two person affair, why would it concern them... but then again.. seldom do people live in a two person world. if having such relationship will cause so much stress, wouldn't it stress you in the future. Personally short term infatuation is okay... But think long term... Someone older than you. When you are 25, the person is 40..... when you are 45, the person is 60... this does not means it will not work out, but real careful thoughts have to be made.

After writing all these. I decided to stop cause I thought of something.. How many relationship are truly two sided affairs with both parties putting in equal efforts into the relationship ?