Friday, August 24, 2007
Was reading some blogs and come across one of my friend's blog entries and I find it interesting. There is so much questions and I decided to post my answer based on purely what I think.
Does it really matter whether a boyfriend has to send their girl home?
A: Oh well, I feel that it is just how much the girl mean to you. Although singapore is safe, there is always a "what if" but of course not a "must send", sometimes also have to see the situation. So now the next question I am even more curious to find out, so if the guy is driving, so die die must send the girl home ?!?!?! Does having a car = more convenient and easier ?!?!? Think again, sleeping in the bus or cab on the way home more shiok or got to concentrate on the road despite being tired is more shiok...... THINK !!! No wonder my father's friend rather pay her wife cab fare for her to take cab home than to rush all the way from home to fetch her home.
Do guys really tries to understand girls? Or they just assume they really are?
A: Girls easy to understand one meh ? Sometimes I think girls don't know what they want also. Guys sometimes do things more on the practical sense and girls more on the 'feeling' sense. Of course there are guys who try to understand girls so normally they end up as good friends and pals to the girls. Same feeling for me too, it would be rather scary to have a girlfriend who know me so well to the core... Kind of freaky.
Does girlfriend always sounds naggy to the guys?
A: Think aunties sounds more naggy, guess mostly due to their sharp pitch voice. wahaha... Think I am a weirdo, kind of like girl to nag me, but to a certain extent... Not everything I do then nag then sure faint... maybe 50% is a good one. haha.. But then again, if it is for the better, why not.. haha..
Does it really matter if a couple don't meet for a few weeks?
A: First thing I thought of is niu lang zhi nu. haha.. crap.. Oh well, that will depends on the individual side of activities and reason le. But it sure is a good way to test the strength of the relationship. But personally I feel, if you really like the person, I believe you will at least make some effort although tired to meet up with that person ? It is a both side thing, not single side.
Is it okay if the couple do not tell each other about their whereabouts?
A: Hmmm.... Unless the guy wanna send the girl home or the girl wanna send the guy home, if not ask for what ? unless asking about if the place is fun or not bla bla bla... if not I don't see the reason..
Is it okay to be close friends with opposite gender though you are attached?
A: Sure, why not. As long consciences is clear. Take for example, if a person's girlfriend got so many people entertain her and accompany her and hear her complains, then the boyfriend only need to do very little mah... (Personally it sucks, but this is what is happening now... kaoz... )
Does it really matters who gives more in a relationship?
A: this follows a exponential curve... Once it drops to almost 0, it is as good as dead. No boost up again, means die off.
How does one judge whether they are taken forgranted not?
A: Found that don't think about it is the best solution. Think too much most prob will end up with a world with no people helping other people cause all find it not worth. Humans are selfish in nature, how to change their thinking ??
Is it true that guys don't like to hang out with their girlfriend's friends?
A: Ehm.... basically I think guys don't mind going out unless their friends are super 'against' or 'anti' you one. But must see situation mah.. If only three person.. so you expect the girl to talk to you or her friend. Liang Bai Ju Sang. But then again, if both go shopping... why need the guy to tag along ? just like if I mod car, what can the girl do but wait ? so bo liao must well don't join.
Why do guys like to ask their girl out with him and his friends? To show off?
A: HA ! To show off isn't that good ? haha... think again, if they never tell people about you, isn't that worse.. haha.. Apparently a lot of guys does that when they have a beautiful girlfriend. But then again, sometimes the guy just wanna share the things they do together with the girl and don't want her to be omitted.
Does it really matters that one should not be too sticky towards their partners?
A: Ying Ren Er Yi. Personally I prefer slighty more sticky type. haha.... to control me... wahaha... but it is always good to have lots of freedom. You see, it is a very contradicting thing. Give too much freedom then complain the other party don't care about you, control too much, say you possesive. HA !
Does it matters if one doesn't care who their partner hang out with? Does it really matters?
A: This is something call trust. But the main idea is don't lie, and don't cover up. If consciences is clear, there is no need to hide. just mention openly and I believe the other party can understand, if cannot understand... throw away and find new one. haha...
That's all... What a long entry. haha...
Keeping every secret...
at 11:22 AM